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Woman in Rocking Chair Thomas Pollock Anschutz
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About Comments: Please note I have closed all comments on the posts about the Adam Race/Carol Race story from last week and I do moderate comments on other postings.   I will be posting updated information if and when I get it.  I want to thank again all the very good and kind people who have contacted me about the situation.  Also I ask that you all keep the Race family and their parish community in your prayers.

Stand-mixer Whole-wheat Bread Recipe:

1cup very warm water
1 tbsp yeast
1-2 tbsp sweeter (honey, sugar)
2 tbsp oil or shortening (butter, lard, olive oil)
~1 tbsp salt
mix until blended and then let sit for 10-15 mins, switch to the bread hook.
then mix in:
4 cups flour (I use 1cup bread flour, 1 cup whole wheat flour, and two cups whole-grain white)
1 cup warm water
alternate the flour and water until the flour and water are all in then continue to add flour until the dough forms a single mass.  The dough will still be sticky to the touch but shouldn’t be sticking to the bowl sides.  Let your machine kneed the dough for about ten minutes then stop and let it rise for about 30 mins.  (optionally: Knock the dough down and let it rise again for about 30 mins.)  Place the dough in loaf pans and let rise 20-30 mins and then bake at about 375 for about 20 minutes. 

40 Trash bag challenge:
I am on week 8.  I will be moving the challenge to the side bar so you can still keep up with it.  It has been a lot of fun especially as the children have gotten involved.

One Space a day Challenge:
I have had so much fun with my bags that I am starting an organizing challenge for myself.  The goal will be to de-clutter and organize one small area a day for thirty days in six weeks.  One shelf, one drawer, a desktop, counter top or cupboard.  I plan to do before and after shots for this round. 


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Getting clothing under control

The Young Seamstress by Heinrich Hirt

You may have noticed that in my laundry articles I have referred a few times to my clothing lists without going into detail about the lists themselves.   This is a response to the inquiries I have received about the lists.  It explains what the list is and how it works, I have provided my lists as an example and explained the process of developing the list in case you want to create your own.

The clothing list was developed using several different lists and by observing my own family’s needs.  The philosophy behind the list is simple: there is a minimum amount of clothing that my children need.  Having more than that doesn’t improve their quality of life, and managing an excess is a burden for our family.   The list serves two very important purposes for me.  First it gives me a frame work to enable me to see when we have too much.  The second is that it makes planning of my children’s clothing needs a breeze.

Creating my first list:
When I gave birth to my fifth child my mother and father-in-law stayed at our home with the other children.  My mother-in-law made the observation that we own too many clothes.  And we did.  Between school uniforms for my oldest, the endless boxes and bags gifted to us by friends and family and our own purchases for the children our closets were stuffed, drawers overflowing and the laundry baskets bursting at the seems.  The laundry cycle was broken, mostly because it was overloaded.  I had to do something.  I was quick to admit that my mother-in-law was correct and that a large part of the laundry issue was the amount of clothing we owned, but I really didn’t feel that I had a sense of what to do about it.

We had just finished purchasing school uniforms for my oldest and as I looked at the list I had a small inspiration.  If I could make a list for uniforms for school surely I could apply that basic concept to clothing as a whole.  Then came the realization that somewhere online a list like what I wanted probably existed.  But I couldn’t find one.  The closest I came was a list of the bare necessities for children in foster care or the lists for children attending boarding school or camp.  But these all helped me figure out what was needed.

I came up with the following items:

Casual clothing:
Romper/ sleeper
Short Sleeve Shirt
Long sleeve shirt
Turtle Neck/ Sweat shirt

Sunday Best:
Dress shirt
Dress coat

Nice dress up:
Dress or nice outfit
Nice shirt

dress socks

Weather Wear:
Rain coat
light weight Jacket

Warm coat
winter Hat
sun hat

Sports and athletics:
athletic shorts
Sweat pants
Sweat shirt
As needed  for sports or lessons (might include martial arts uniform, ballet leotard, or sports uniform)

casual shoes
Hiking boots
Rain boots
Winter boots
dress shoes
athletic shoes

I wanted to be sure that I covered the basic needs of my children for the full year.  This base list covers all ages.  From this list for any individual child I knock out those things that don’t apply to them, then I work on the quantities.

Figuring out the quantities:
Once I had the master list the next thing to consider was the laundry cycle.  Typically the longest an item will be in my laundry cycle is four days.  An item worn the day I wash the type of clothing the item is will be washed again within four days.  For example: Hannah wears her favorite pink top on Tuesday.  Tuesday I am washing light weight light-colored clothing the top she is wearing belongs in so it isn’t in that load.  If Hannah puts her top in the laundry Tuesday night  I won’t wash light-colored lights again until Thursday or Friday  and it will be folded and in her drawer again by Friday or Saturday.

Every family’s wash cycle is different.  It is determined by the type of clothing your family wear, the number of people in your family, your load size and the time you spend on laundry.  The larger your family the more laundry you have, but the less time it takes to accumulate a full load of any particular type.   The more consistent the type of clothing your family wears the less time between that type of load.   If you have four boys who live in jeans you might find you wash denim every two days and whites once a week, in this case you would need three jeans for each boy but they would need seven pairs of socks and underwear

Your cycle will be the major determining factor in how many items you need of each type.  Basically you need clothing equal to the number of days between washes plus one. If you wash everything everyday you need two changes of clothing, but if you wash each load once a week you need eight.   Since I wash almost everything in four days my family has five days worth of clothing.   Other things you might consider are: Do you have multiple clothing changes per day (infants?)  Are you consistent in your laundry cycle?  Do you have religious or personal times that you can’t do laundry during?  Do you wash some loads more frequently than others?

An example of adding quantities:
Let me show you an example of how I go from the general list to a specific list for a child.  Let’s look at Hannah.   She is a six year old girl who loves pink and frills and takes ballet and swim lessons.

First, I knock out all the items that aren’t appropriate for her age and gender.  Gone are the baby things, the nylons for a teen girl, the shirt and tie for the boy.  I add in the leotard, tights and slippers for ballet.

Second, I go through and fill in the things that we just need one of,  dress clothing, coats and shoes among others.

Third, I figure five days clothing on some things, like underwear, which are worn each day.  Other items I split the five days over two or more seasonal options, for instance 2-3 long sleeve shirts plus 2-3 turtle necks or swear shirts.  For pajamas, at this age I default to two as we wear them more than one night in a row.   I also include notes on some items, like the note that at least one pair of tights be nice for mass.

Finally, I go in and finish the list by adding two slips, three to four bloomers and two pair of dance tights (so we won’t be scrambling if one pair has a run on dance lesson day) The final result can be seen below:

Casual clothing:
Tops  2-3
Short Sleeve Shirt 2-3
Long sleeve shirt 2-3
Turtle Neck/ Sweat shirt 2-3
Sweater/Cardigan  1
Skort/Skirts/Jumper 2-3 (per season)
leggings 2-3
Shorts  2-3
Jeans   2
Pants 2-3

Sunday Best:
Dress   1
Dress coat 1

Nice dress up:
Dress or nice outfit 1

socks  2-3
tights  2-3, one day pair for mass
Underwear/panties – 5
Slip  2-3
Bloomers 3-4
Undershirt – 5
Pajamas 2
Robe 1
Slippers 1

Weather Wear:
Rain coat 1
light weight Jacket 1
Warm coat 1
winter Hat 1
Gloves/mittens 1
Scarf 1
sun hat 1

Sports and athletics:
t-shirt 2
athletic shorts 2
Swimsuit 1
Sweat pants 1
Sweat shirt 1
leotard  1
tights 2
ballet slippers 1

casual shoes 1
sandals 1
Hiking boots 1
Rain boots 1
Winter boots 1
dress shoes 1
athletic shoes 1

Each age has special consideration.  Babies go through more clothing a day and some mothers wash their clothing separately.  Toddlers and pre-schools might have more nighttime accidents and need extra changes of pajamas.  School age children tend to need an extra pair of basics (jeans, shorts etc.) because of their tendency to get messy outside.  Teens may have more definite taste considerations, work or school uniforms and or hand washables.    You know your family and nothing can substitute for your own judgment, but hopefully this creates a starting place for you if you are interested in the clothing inventory list system.

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Laundry part three

Francisco De Zurbar


This is the third of the laundry series parts one and two are:
Simply Lovely Laundry

Laundry – The System



Washing, drying, ironing and all that sort of thing

This article is a continuation of my other laundry articles: Simply Lovely Laundry and Laundry – The System.

In those articles I explained that the root struggles of laundry in our household.  Large families generate more laundry, but we had complicated our problem by having an excess of clothing and linens.  To solve this problem I created a lists of clothing for our family and lists of linens, towels and other washables.  By eliminating and limiting the amount of clothing we own I simplify the laundry. 

To manage dirty clothes we have hampers in dressing areas that are sorted into hampers in the laundry room before they are washed.  We have five baskets, four tall ones and one small one.  The tall baskets sort the laundry into whites, light colors, heavy/dark colors and towels.  The small basket holds the kitchen towels.  This makes it easy to keep the loads sorted and to see what needs washed “right now”.   Even the little kids can handle this sort of sorting system. 

The machines: we invested in the most energy efficient and high capacity washer and dryer we could afford.  Not a matching set,  because we found that often one item of a set was rated far higher than they other, so they don’t match but after doing the research on the models available to us and within our budget we ended up with what we have.  When we bought our first energy efficient washer I noticed a real drop in our electric bill.  I think it paid for itself in less than two years.  I am not going to recommend a particular brand here because by the time you read this something else will be better, but we have Whirlpool washer and Kenmore dryer.  If you are in the market for replacing your washer or dryer do the research to find an energy efficient, quality machine. 

Each of our tall baskets hold about one and a half loads of laundry.  To keep absolutely on top of the laundry I do two to three loads of laundry a day.  At one point I would be behind if I wasn’t doing three loads a day.    But I instituted some common sense practices that helped me greatly.

Hang up bath towels after they are used.  Towels used to dry off a clean body can in fact be used again.  The same goes with the pool towel.  As long as it is clean hang it up and let it dry, use it again.  Here is the math.  I put 10 bath towels in a load.  If each person uses a bath towel one a day and we go swimming twice a week that is 63 towels a week and 6.5 loads of laundry.  If each person hangs up their towel and uses it twice it cuts that in half.  

Change bedding all on the same day: I find it easier to have one, big, linen washing day then to have sheets dribbling in with the regular laundry.

Rules for lovely daughters:  You will not change your clothing three times a day not even twice.  If you are playing dress up you will put your clothing back on when you are done.  Yes, that means the same clothing  you had on before.  You will not eat, drink or do arts and crafts in your dress up clothing (exceptions may be made for tea parties).  

Rules for dashing sons: Please do not roll in mud, dirt or dirty leaves.  Do not throw mud, dirt or anything else at your siblings.  Do not hose down the dog in order to play “sprinkler” dog.  I don’t care that you were playing farm and got to be the pig, the mud rule still applies.  If you start getting hot bring your jacket or sweatshirt inside, please don’t leave it outdoors, drop it in the dirt or mud or put it on the dog.

Rules for all children: If you dig through your drawer to find a favorite item put everything back, in no circumstances should you leave clothing on the floor.  Hang up your bath towel and wash cloth.  Wear an apron when cooking and a craft smock for painting.  Use your napkin not your pants or shirt.  Use a tissue not your sleeve. 

I follow the manufacture’s instructions with my front loader and use the recommended detergent.  Some people don’t and their laundry comes out fine and their machines don’t appear to suffer.  Some people swear by certain brands, some buy whatever is cheapest, some people go for the environmentally sounder option and some people I know make their own.  I have no strong opinion on any of it.   If it gets your clothing clean and doesn’t break the budget isn’t that really what matters?

Hand wash: There is a surprising number of hand wash detergents.  Perfume companies sometimes make laundry soap in your favorite scents. 

This is a big one for me this summer:  Dryer vs. Clothes line.  Living in the wet Northwest there really isn’t much of an option for hanging laundry outside from about October to May, but during the summer months we have enough good weather to make outside drying a possibility.  If you check this calculator  you can see how much it would save to dry clothes on the line.  For me it is about $22 a month.  Considering that line and two packs of pins will run you about $12 that isn’t a bad deal. 

My daughter Hannah loves the outdoor line.  On sunny days we hang the clothes out and then forget about them for awhile.  I have considered purchasing an umbrella line, but I haven’t cost proven it to myself yet.


I really try to avoid ironing as much as possible.  Kyle does a very good job with ironing his own clothes for work. 


40 bags of stuff. · Homemaking · Mary Mary and Martha · My world

40 Trash bag Challenge


So far I have managed to get about 17 bags of stuff out of my house for good.  Most of this is old clothing and sheets.  In part because I haven’t even gotten out of the bedroom closet area.  Today I am heading into the bathroom and then on to the girl’s room. 

I was about to write that I hadn’t learned anything insightful so far, but that isn’t true.  When Kyle and I were going through the closet (I didn’t want to toss anything of his without his input) one thing we both noticed was how ofter we said “Wow, I forgot I owned that”.  We have some items that we more or less store in our closet and somehow things we like had dissapperead behind things we didn’t and before long they were completly forgotten.  So, the lesson I take from this is pretty straight forward.  Don’t store things you rarely use with things you use all the time.  Seperate them in some way.  Put them in a storage bag or box, move them to a storage area in your home, but sperate them in some way.  This lesson was reiterated with the linen closet.  Things had more or less been put back in a rather haphazard manner and so it was difficult to find sets, pillow cases had taken to hidding in the oddest places and a good portion of this problem was simply that there were too many items not regularaly used mixed in with the items I need every week.

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When you have a large family laundry becomes a project.  It is not a matter of tossing half the clothing you own in the washer and then taking off for the day.  When you have a large family the laundry must flow.  Or you face the horde looking at you half dressed wondering where their socks and pants are while you are frantically trying to find one clean shirt while trying to get out the door for an appointment. I have already written about our laundry containment system of multiple hampers.   Now, I will get down to the nitty-gritty of washing. 


In our laundry system the clothing is already sorted into five main groups: darks, lights, whites, bath towels and kitchen towels (which include aprons, oven-mits, napkins, and shopping bags).  Hand washables, delicates and dry-cleaning items are also sorted out.   We have enough clothing that there is still some sorting that ideally will take place at this point.  Heavy dark clothing is separated from light-weights darks and lint givers from lint collectors go in separate loads.


As the laundry is separated I check for stains again and check pockets and zippers closers.  If zippers are closed during the wash they won’t snag other clothing which can damage the zipper or the other item.  This also applies to buttons and snaps but is more important with zippers.  I remember having a conversation with someone years ago about having to check the pockets before sending things through the wash. Her take was that everyone should take things out of their own pockets (especially husbands), and of course she is correct, but considering we are living in the real world where people forget things like that I check them.  I think it is one of those cases where you can be right all you want but reality isn’t going to comply with you just because you are.  Sort of like crossing a street at the cross walk, sure the pedestrian has the right of way… but the car is going to hit you pretty hard if you don’t pay attention to it.


A bit on stains:


There are many wonderful stain removal products on the market and some good homemade alternatives.  Ohio State University has a wonderful article about laundry, including does and don’t for stain removal. 


The most important things to remember when trying to get out stains are:

  1. Timeliness – Almost all stains respond better to quick treatment and may even become impossible to get out if allowed to set
  2. Don’t get creative – most stains have well known removal techniques.
  3. Follow the directions – Both the washing directions on the garment and the product.  This includes spot testing, soaking time, water temperature, et al.
  4. Start with the least extreme option and go from there.


Before tossing something in the machine I also check to see if there is any quick mending that needs done.  Some things will get worse in the wash, loose buttons, fraying rips and will probably need mending before they are washed.  Something like a falling hem is more a judgment call they might be worse or not.




As I have mentioned we have an energy efficient large capacity front loader.   Any large family will do itself a huge service by using the most energy/water efficient machine they can afford.  When you are washing three loads a day the cost of electricity and water add up fast. 


I am really hooked on my front loader.  The clothing seems to come out cleaner, it runs faster and it is gentler than my old top-loader with agitator.  The delicate option is actually delicate enough to wash many of my hand wash items.  I haven’t been brave enough to trust my underwires to it.   A lingerie bag is nice to use in the wash and I have read about special cage like things called “bra balls” that can be used in machine washing your bras, but I haven’t tried one myself.  I actually don’t mind handwashing delicate fabrics.  Especially when I can use a nice smelling detergent, warm water and let them dry hanging in the bathroom. 


If you have never tried it you might want to look into blueing.  It really puts the sparkle back into white clothes. 




Line drying vrs the dryer.  Well, hands down line drying wins in theory.  It is energy efficient, better for your clothing, and all that is good and right.  But drying outside here in Western Oregon is problematic… considering anything hung outside after mid November is likely to be just as wet in mid March.    I have limited space indoors to dry, so it is the dryer to the rescue for the winter months.  During the summer I have gone through outdoor drying spells, but I need a better line system to make it really work.  I am researching the options and will try to get back with something sensible when I nail down the details.


For sweaters and other items that are flat dry I have a drying rack.  Actually my drying rack is broken and I am afraid I need to invest in another one.   But a folding one that comes out to do its work and then hides neatly away is perfect for our household.


Once clothing is dried I try to make sure it is folded and put away as soon possible.  I hate baskets of unfolded clothing getting all wrinkled and making it difficult for me to find the things I need.


I have for a while been considering ironing before things are put away, but have never made the switch.  We generally avoid things that need ironed.  I am awful at ironing.  For some reason I end up ironing more wrinkles in than I get out.  I use a spray starch on occasion and love the results.